How To Get Out Of The FRIENDZONE…

I have a weekly feature where I give advice on my new site
Guys… if you always get stuck just being a friend and not actually getting the girl, read my advice feature. I think it might help. I’m here to help because IMYAGirl!

Fevur Painting

Allan aka ‘fevur’ was so kind to send me this beautiful painting. Thank you Allan! I love it!!

Ivan Hoo Artwork

Here’s an amazing realistic charcoal drawing by the talented Ivan Hoo. He was kind enough to send me the original! Thank you Ivan!!

Charcoal & Pencil

Check out this crazy realistic charcoal & pencil drawing by the incredible Ivan Hoo

2 Day Til Xmas!

Download the full size wallpaper!  Click on the image below for the full size version!

Painting by Allan

Here’s a painting by Allan!

Evolution of the Fairy

Photo taken by Lisa Boyle
Painting by Wendy Mitchell

Miss Mindful

Check out what I just got in the mail!! I’m SOO excited! ORIGINAL paintings from Jessica Kim ask Miss Mindful!  She goes by ‘missmindful’ on facebook & instagram. Be sure to check out her feed! You will LOVE it!! I know I do. It’s my favorite feed to visit .. cheers me up! 😀 THANK YOU JESSICA!!! LOVE YOU!!!

Me & my Crazy Beyotches

Here’s one of my favorite drawings from NoCashComics of me and my girls, The Crazy Beyotches!

Posturepedic Mattress

Check out my new Posturepedic Mattress 😛


Smoking Jacket Interview

Talk about talent: Natasha Yi was a senior in high school when she got her first modeling job—posing for Playboy. Since then she’s modeled for various magazines, done a stretch on The Price is Right, and poured a lot into her hugely successful website Currently she’s half of the team behind the episodic mockumentary Black Metal, which you can see at Yazook.TV. For the maximum possible Yi experience, be sure to follow her on Twitter as well.

A nickname I have had: The Paper Monster. I can’t help it, I use a lot of toilet paper every week. I’m a germaphobe so I use a ton of paper towels and napkins too! I’m sure I’ve destroyed a forest or two with my issues.

The worst movie I have ever seen: Was about a car tire that attacked people. I don’t remember what the name of it was. Who would give someone the money to make a movie about a tire?

Try not to stare at: The corners of my feet after a long night on heels. They look like they were in a boxing match. Maybe not that bad but still, don’t be lookin’!

Sexy is: Mostly in a girl’s mind. Make a girl feel confident. Make a girl laugh. Show a girl you are a trustworthy reliable guy that will be there for her and the good sex will follow.

My greatest weakness is: Microwaveable food after 2 am. I can’t stop myself from eating in the middle of the night. It’s why I have to do 2 hours of cardio every day.

I don’t understand why people think I’m: Into girls. Just cuz I like to shower with them, kiss them, and caress them…

Something cool about having boobs is: Getting to shop for awesome bras. Why do guys with man-boobs buy such boring bras?

When I throw a party I make sure to have plenty of: Excuses to tell them to get the fuck out. People don’t know when to leave sometimes. One of my favorite excuses is, “Hey get the fuck out I said!”

The funniest comedian is: Craig Ferguson and Daniel Tosh

I wish people would stop Tweeting about: “The girl that pissed me off today… she knows who she is.” Come on. If you’re talking tough in your tweets then say her name!

The most unpleasant phrase in the English language is: “It is what it is.” PLEASE STOP. That phrase is not saying anything!

A type of ladies’ underwear I don’t enjoy wearing: Used ones. I don’t get friends sharing underwear. Not me!

I will never understand why men: Shout at women as they walk or drive by. Do they really think a girl is gonna say “Oh my God, the way you whistled at me like an animal makes me want to stop the car and do you!”

My most recent wardrobe malfunction was: When I was learning how to surf in Hawaii and after a wave wiped me out, I stood up to talk to the instructor and was completely naked!

My relationship with spectator sports is: Take me to ANY live game. I really get into the energy of live competition. But keeping up with stats gives me zero pleasure.

The most interesting compliment I got was: From an older blonde lady in Texas. She said, “You look cute for a Chinese person.” What? I’m not even Chinese.

Something my father did that still traumatizes me today: I brought home a stray kitten one day for my very own pet. That night, my dad took it to a dumpster. I thought it ran away so I looked and looked, posted reward signs, and made calls everywhere. Someone finally found the cat and brought him back home. That night my dad took him back to the dumpster! I didn’t find out til years later what really happened.

The best thing I learned from an ex-boyfriend was: Not to listen to him so much. Every girl lets at least one guy mess with her head or fill it with his bullshit. Never again!

A grown man should not: Get a tattoo on his lower back.



Here’s another one of my favorite paintings by the amazing Janesko!


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Natasha Yi : NC – 17

A wet shirt without a bra?  Personally, I consider that PG-13 … but I think the majority would say it’s NC-17 .. so please be aware that the following video contains footage of my shirt wet without a bra .. ok .. ok …

Ric Frane

More of my favorite paintings by the talented Ric Frane


The Five Most Common Sleep Positions and What They Say About Your Personality

These things always seem like nonsense, but according to Men’s Health, the position you sleep in at night could reveal certain things about your personality.

–Researchers surveyed 1,000 people and watched them sleep.  Here are the five most common positions, and what they mean.


#1.)  The Fetus Position. It’s the most popular position, and 41% of the people who were studied prefer it.  Here’s what it means:

–If you sleep on your side, people think you’re tough, but you’re actually shy and sensitive.  And it might take a while before you warm up to strangers, but once you know them you’re much more relaxed.

–There’s also one health concern:  If you sleep on your LEFT side, it can put stress on your liver, stomach, and lungs.  So sleeping on your right side is better.

#2.)  Sleeping on Your Side, But Not Curling Up. It means you’re social and easygoing.  But you also tend to trust people too much, so you’re easy to take advantage of.

#3.)  The Yearner Position. It’s when you sleep on your side with both arms out in front of you . . . kind of the way Frankenstein looks when he walks . . . and it means you’re open to new things, but also suspicious and cynical.

–It takes you a long time to make decisions.  But once you do, you don’t change your mind very easily.

#4.)  Sleeping on Your Stomach. People who sleep on their stomach with their hands above their head are good at making quick decisions . . . but sometimes that results in BAD decisions.  And they tend to take criticism personally.

#5.)  The Soldier Position. It’s when you sleep on your back with your arms out at your sides, and your legs slightly spread.  If that’s you, then according to the study you’re quiet and reserved, but you expect a lot out of yourself and others.

–And there’s also a good chance you snore, since sleeping on your back makes it harder to breathe.  You’ll sleep better . . . and so will the person next to you . . . if you flip over and sleep on your stomach.

–Plus, sleeping on your stomach is better for digestion.

Rukus Magazine Interview

1. What’s your Ethnicity?

My father is Korean. I don’t know who and what my birth mother’s nationality is … long story.

2. What’s your Zodiac sign?

I’m an Aries on a Pisces cusp. That means I’m a strong fire sign but I can easily swim with the fishes.

3. Where are you originally from?

I was born in Boston. I spent my childhood years bouncing across the nation (Connecticut, Colorado, California) and went to High School in Colorado. Once I turned 18 and was on my own, I headed to Los Angles. I’ve also lived in NYC, Los Angeles and San Francisco. I think that makes me an “official” gypsy girl!

4. Tell us about your days growing up?

Growing up was a weird dynamic. My father was trying to raise 3 girls on his own. It was so hard and frustrating for him that he would just stop talking to us for months at a time. My sisters weren’t the most loving either. We definitely had a love-hate relationship. One of them actually tried to get me in trouble by planting weed in my drawer. HA HA True Story!!

5. What kind of mischief did you get into while growing up?

Wow. I have so many stories. In high school, my best friend found a serious amount of drugs in her “boyfriend’s” closet. We didn’t know what the hell we were doing, but we sold some of it to buy make up and flushed the rest. The boyfriend went nuts trying to figure out how it disappeared.

6. What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?

When I was 21, I was suppose to drive out to California from Colorado with $10,000 from my Dad to give to my Aunt. We stopped in Vegas. I got so drunk that I told my friend I’m going to bet it all on red. She told me that I didn’t have the balls. I did it. I’m not going to tell you what happened. If you see me at an appearance in person though, I promise I will tell you. 😛

7. What’s your favorite hobby and why?

I don’t have a favorite hobby at the moment. I get really into stuff, but the moment it could be considered a hobby, I’m bored with it. My last big “thing” was riding motorcycles…not little wussy motorcycles….I like custom-built heavy street machines. I bought one that my friend, Arlen Ness helped me custom built even before I knew how to ride it. I was determined to learn to ride it so I just went for it. It was a lot of fun!

8. What’s your guilty pleasure?

Please don’t kill me….I like Rebecca Black’s Friday song. 😛

9. Who do you admire?

I admire ALL PEOPLE that move out of their comfort zone to experience life or make a difference in other people’s lives. I have A LOT of respect for Angelina Jolie. I wish people only knew how much of her life is spent in 3rd world countries caring for children. She doesn’t just talk about it for publicity. She is there in the middle of it more often than she is at home. I think most people with that kind of money would be on yachts and vacations 24/7.

10. What’s one of your personal goals?

I’m really excited about starting my own internet television site and developing content for other stations. The site will start with just a few shows, but eventually I will be seeking other talented people and allowing them to express themselves without all the censorship that tv brings. soft launches this summer and will have more programs added 2012. Be sure to check it out. It’s going to be a lot of fun!

11. What do guys compliment you on the most?

Guys compliment me the most of my parallel parking skills. If you ever watched me parallel park, you would have a new appreciation for women drivers. 😛

12. What’s your favorite body part on yourself?

I think most women worry more about what they don’t like about themselves than what they do. You won’t ever hear a woman say, “ God I love my ass, isn’t it amazing?” …And if you do, would you slap her for me? 😛

13. What’s your least favorite body part on yourself?

Don’t you worry bout that buddy!!

14. What do you look for in a guy?

I like someone that makes me laugh. I like a guy that is honest. I like a guy that makes his woman feel special. I think that’s what most girls want, yet it is so hard to find. I also don’t mind someone that can give a killer back massage. 😉

15. What’s the first thing you notice about a guy?

The first thing I notice about a guy is the way he treats other people.

16. What’s your ideal first date?

If a guy picks me up, takes me to meet Justin Timberlake backstage, then leaves us alone, that’s a great guy!! JUST KIDDING!! Just be a gentleman and don’t brag about what kind of car you drive, how much you get paid, or who you know. I don’t care about any of that! Just keep it real and make me smile!

17. What turns you on?

Someone that can speak 3 languages at the same time in 3 different voices 😛 Just kidding! I think making out is a big turn on … it’s so much fun!

18. What turns you off?

Sloppy drunks, Poor hygiene, People who can’t admit when they’re wrong & cockiness

19. What’s your biggest pet peeve?

Men in Hollywood that think they can get with girls because of what project they are working on or because they once worked with Quentin Tarantino. SHUT UP!!


Check out this painting by the talented Michael Calandra



What Each Kiss Means

–  Kiss on the Stomach: I’m  ready.

–  Kiss on the Forehead: I missed you…

–  Kiss on the Cheek: Long time no see…

–  Kiss on the Hand: You’re mine!

–  Kiss on the Neck: I want to be with you…

–  Kiss on the Shoulder: You mean so much…

–  Kiss on the Lips: I love you


–  Holding Hands: You’re mine.

–  Touching on the Butt: This is mine!

–  Holding you tight pressed against each other: Don’t let go…

–  Looking into each others Eyes: I trust you!

–  Playing with Hair: Let’s fool around.

–  Arms around the Waist: Be close to me.

–  Laughing while Kissing: You are perfect with me!

Five Things You Should Do While You’re Single has a list of things you should do while you’re SINGLE.  And each thing is sort of designed to help you in your NEXT relationship.  Here are the top five . . .

#1.)  TRAVEL ALONE. It helps you build self-confidence, because you have to make every decision yourself.  And learning to be more independent can help you in your next relationship, because being TOO dependant on other people can be a turn off.

#2.)  STAY OUT ALL NIGHT. Just not EVERY night.  But you have to be a LITTLE wild when you’re single, or you’ll regret it. Because once you’re with someone again, you won’t be ABLE to do whatever you want.


#3.)  LEARN HOW TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. So, if your ex was the one who did all the cooking and cleaning, don’t become a slob once you’re single.

#4.)  SPEND A WEEKEND WITH A MARRIED COUPLE YOUR OWN AGE. says spending 48 hours with a real couple will remind you that relationships aren’t perfect.  And then you won’t rush into a BAD one.

–And if your friends come off like some kind of perfect DREAM couple . . . don’t be fooled, and rush into another relationship even FASTER.  Because people are usually on their best behavior when they have visitors.

#5.)  STAY SINGLE FOR AT LEAST THREE MONTHS. According to, that’s how long you need to really process a break-up.  Otherwise, your next relationship won’t be any better.

–It shouldn’t really be a RULE though, because you might meet someone TOMORROW.  But the point is, if you just hop from one relationship to the next, you won’t give yourself enough time to reflect on why your last relationship failed.


Top 10 Anti-Aging Foods

I saw on the news today that a diet high in sugar causes wrinkles and sagging skin!  I decided to look up foods that ‘hook you up’.  Here are the top 10 anti-aging foods:


1. Avocado –   This fruit, which is usually eaten as a vegetable, is a good source of healthy monounsaturated fat that may help to reduce level of a bad type of cholesterol in body. Avocado is a good source of vitamin E and can help to maintain healthy skin and prevent skin aging.  It is rich in potassium which helps prevent fluid retention and high blood pressure.


2. Berries
–  All black and blue berries such as blackberries, blueberries, blackcurrants and black grapes contain phytochemicals known as flavonoids-powerful antioxidants which help to protect the body against damage caused by free radicals and aging.


3. Cruciferous Vegetables –  The family of Cruciferous vegetables includes cabbage, cauliflower, broccoli, kale, turnip, brussels sprouts, radish and watercress. Cruciferous vegetables assist the body in its fight against toxins and cancer. You should try to consume at least 115g/40z(of any one or a combination) of these vegetables on a daily basis. If possible, eat them raw or very lightly cooked so that the important enzymes remain intact.


4. Garlic –  Eating a clove of garlic a day (raw or cooked) helps to protect the body against cancer and heart disease.


5. Ginger –  This spicy root can boost the digestive and circulatory systems, which can be useful for older people. Ginger may also help to alleviate rheumatic aches and pains.


6. Nuts –  Most varieties of nuts are good sources of minerals, particularly walnuts and brazi nuts. Walnuts, although high in calories, are rich in potassium, magnesium, iron, zinc, copper and selenium.  Adding nuts to your diet (sprinkle them on salads and desserts) can enhance the functioning of your digestive and immune systems, improve your skin help control prevent cancer. Nuts may also help control cholesterol levels. Never eat rancid nuts, however, as they have been linked to a high incidence of free radicals.


7. Soya –  Menopausal women might find that soya helps to maintain estrogen levels. Soya may alleviate menopausal hot flush and protect against Alzheimer’s disease, osteoporosis and heart disease. Look out for fermented soya products, which are more easily digested, therefore more nutritional, and do not generally cause food intolerances. You may want to check that soya products have not been genetically modified. Soya should not be confused with soya sauce, which is full of salt and should be used sparingly, if at all.


8. Whole meal pasta and rice –  Complex carbohydrates provide a consistent supply of energy throughout the day and should make up the bulk of your diet. Wholemeal pasta is an excellent complex carbohydrate. It is high in fiber and contains twice the amount of iron as normal pasta. Brown rice is another recommended complex carbohydrate, which is high in fibre and B vitamins.


9, Watermelon – Both the flesh and seeds of the watermelon are nutritious so try blending them together in a food processor and drinking as a juice. The flesh contain vitamin A, B and C; the seeds contain selenium, essential fats, zinc and vitamin E, all of which help against free radical damage and aging.


10. Water
–  Drink at least 8 glasses of water every day in order to remain healthy. Water helps us to get rid of the toxins and unwanted waste materials from your body.  Don’t rely on thirst; this sensation diminishes with age. Drink often and choose from nutritious liquids, including 100% fruit and vegetable juices, skim or low fat milk, broths, sparkling water, and teas. You can also get fluids from foods, especially those that are liquid at room temperature. Try gelatin, frozen yogurt, soups, watermelon, oranges, lettuce, tomatoes, etc.


French Maid

The French Maid … coming soon!

You make me wanna lala in the kitchen on the floor
I’ll be your French maid where I meet you at the door
I’m like an alley cat
Drink the milk up I want more
You make me wanna
You make me wanna scream

Would YOU Lie to Have Sex?

79% of Men Say They’d Be Willing to Lie to Have Sex

Amber Madison is an author who traveled the country, surveying more than 1,000 men for her book “Are All Guys [A-Holes]?” Here are some of her findings . . .

  • 44% of men say they’d take a girl on a few dates, text her frequently, and fake an interest in her . . . just to have sex.
  • 35% of men would take it further, and actually lie about how much commitment they’re willing to offer in order to get sex.
  • Added up, that means 79% of guys are willing to lie to have sex.
  • 8% of the men surveyed said they had no interest in a long-term relationship or even a short-term one, and just wanted sex.
  • And 0.8% said they NEVER plan to get into a relationship.
  • Men ranked humor, intelligence, and niceness ahead of looks.
  • 50% said a woman asking them out is a turn-on, and only 5% said it’s a turn-off.
  • 67% say they like when a woman contacts them between dates and doesn’t wait for them to initiate contact.

Artwork by Darin Michau

Here’s an art piece Darin created inspired by my Show Magazine cover.

September BFOTM: Julez


I met Julez at Importfest the other month.  We connected since day 1 of corresponding.  She asked me to party with her during my visit to Toronto.  Let’s just say she knows how to par-tay!  Julez is HOT! Julez is SEXY! Julez has an energy about her that you will want to be around!


Follow my girl @JulezLIVE !!!!!!



Sam Wrote:
Where do you see yourself in five years?

Natasha Responds:

I want to be involved more with the creation of projects. Being in front of the camera is fun, but I feel like if I get involved with my content and other people’s content more form behind the lens (especially with video), I can bring more out of people and change the game a little bit.

Biggest Accomplishment

Jon Wrote:
What is your biggest accomplishment?

Natasha Yi Responds:

To me, my biggest accomplishment is that I created a name/brand for myself without compromising who I am. At 17, I moved alone as a teenager with nothing but my dreams. Honestly, this business is filled with shady deals and temptations. When people look at the cover of so many magazines, they just see a person. But, so often, what they don’t see is how many times that girl did a sexual favor to get a movie or TV role. I hope that I am an inspiration for the next generation of models that you can make a name for yourself with out losing self respect. Sorry if that got a bit serious, but it’s what I’m most proud of.


Sam Wrote:
What’s your hometown?

Natasha Yi Responds:

I was born in Boston.  I spent my childhood years bouncing across the nation (Connecticut, Colorado, California) and went to High School in Colorado.  I’ve also lived in NYC, Los Angeles and San Francisco.  I think that makes me an “official” gypsy girl!

August BFOTM: Anthony


Anthony and I became friends through twitter. He always makes my day through his sweet & clever tweets. We finally met the other month during Importfest. I’m happy to call Anthony one of my virtual bff!  If you’re a fellow tweeter, you can follow him.  Guaranteed to make you smile 🙂 ~>  @AjAnthonyB


Overweight or Underweight?

If you had to pick one, would you prefer to date an overweight or underweight body type? Please chose only one or the other. There are no in between answers. This is a very important survey I’m conducting. Thank you. 😀






Harold Wrote:
What is your fitness regime?

Natasha Yi Responds:

It depends. Lately I am like a yo-yo. One week I will run for an hour, hit the weights for 20 minutes, workout my abs for another 20 minutes and eat as healthy as I possibly can. I’ll look in the mirror by the end of the week and say, “Wow, look at my abs!” Then the next week, I will eat breakfast a few times, have a few lunches, eat a ton of cookies and other snacks, have a big old dinner and then end the night with a box of popsicles.