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Yesterday I told you about five things guys do that scare women away. So today the tables are turned. Here’s a list of the five things WOMEN do that scare GUYS away . . .
#1.) YOU’RE TOO GIVING. You could argue that women have a biological tendency to be nurturing. But when it comes to relationships, that can make them WAY too giving. And it becomes a problem if they hold it against their man.
–So if you enjoy being a giving person, then by all means, keep it up. But don’t use it as a weapon to make a guy feel guilty or obligated. Do nice things because you WANT to . . . and don’t forget to be a little selfish too.
#2.) YOU DON’T THINK YOU’RE HOT. You’ve probably heard it a thousand times, but it’s true: Poor self-esteem can damage your sex life. If you don’t FEEL sexy, you’re not going to be as interested in having sex.
–So stop pointing out your flaws to your guy, and start incorporating a couple changes in the bedroom. Like, even if you really don’t want the lights on, start off slowly by lighting a few candles instead.
#3.) YOU OVER-COMMUNICATE. With Facebook, Twitter, instant messaging, email, and texting, it’s easy to communicate CONSTANTLY. But that doesn’t mean you should do it. If you do, it takes away all the mystery, and can lead to boredom.
#4.) YOU AIR ALL YOUR FRUSTRATIONS TO YOUR FRIENDS. Venting to your girlfriends every once in a while is fine. But constantly telling your friends about every single one of your complaints can wreck havoc on your relationship.
–Since your friends want to support YOU, they’ll usually side with you, and everyone will come away thinking your guy is constantly in the wrong. So vent about the big things, but remember to tell them about the nice things he does too.
#5.) YOU CONFUSE HOPES WITH REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS. Have you ever fantasized about your boyfriend doing something special . . . like throwing you a surprise birthday party . . . and then been disappointed when it didn’t happen?
–It’s fine to hope for certain things from your man, but you need to be realistic. So if your boyfriend never plans a weekend getaway, stop disappointing yourself by daydreaming that he’ll suddenly take you on a surprise vacation.
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Guys, if you have a hard time keeping a woman around for more than a few dates, you might be making one of these five mistakes that scare women away . . .
#1.) BEING TOO EASY TO PLEASE. Obviously, women love compliments. But when you throw out too many early on, she’s just going to think you’re insincere.
#2.) BEING TOO FOCUSED ON SEX. She already KNOWS you want to do her. So if you rush things, or guilt-trip her into sex, she’s not going to put out . . . and she’ll question your intentions.
#3.) BEING POSSESSIVE TOO SOON. Don’t get jealous when she hangs out with her guy friends, or spends more time with her girlfriends than you. And if you DO get jealous, at least ACT like you know she’s entitled to have her own life.
#4.) BEING CHEAP. Women are drawn to men who can protect and provide for them. It’s fine to split every fourth date or so, but making her pay too early sends the signal that you’re not the sort of guy she can have a future with.
#5.) TALKING ABOUT EXES. No woman wants to hear about your ex. And it doesn’t matter whether you’re saying good things or bad things. Either way, it shows you have too much baggage.
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PLEASE HELP VICTIMS OF THE NASHVILLE FLOOD:
Kingston Springs Elementary School received severe damage during the recent flooding. The Cheatham County Board of Education has announced that monetary donations and supply donations would be accepted at the following locations.
If you wish to make a monetary donation please mail checks to:
Cheatham County Board of Education
102 Elizabeth St.
Ashland City, TN 37015
The checks need to be made payable to Kingston Springs Elementary School and please indicate on the memo line where the donation should be applied (i.e. library, music room, teacher supplies, etc.).
Donations of supplies can be mailed or brought to the following location:
Kingston Springs Elementary Donation Room 23
c/o Harpeth Middle School
170 Harpeth View Trail
Kingston Springs, TN 37082
The faculty and staff would like to thank everyone in communities near and far for their outpouring of love and support during this time. If you have a question concerning supply needs please e-mail Sue Hasse at email@example.com or call the office at Harpeth High School: 952-2811.